DIVORCERAPE.COM
By Design
A term, not a typo

A father doesn't lose his children.
He's stripped of them.

Divorce rape is the act, committed by the state, of taking a man's time with his own children and as much of his money and property as the system can extract on the way out. It is almost never done to women. It is done to men — routinely, predictably, and on purpose.

Entry 1 divorce rape/dɪˈvɔːrs reɪp/
noun
  1. A family court proceeding whose outcome is measured in hours a father loses with his children and dollars he loses from his own labor.
  2. State action, not misfortune — an outcome this site argues the system is built to produce, not an accident it occasionally causes.
  3. Something this site argues happens almost exclusively to men.
  4. This site's definition and argument — not a legal term, a statute, or a cited study.
The mechanism

This is the pattern the doctrine argues for — not a claim that every case runs this way, and not a claim about any specific person or case.

Custody

Time with his children gets treated as a resource to be divided up, not a relationship to be protected. The starting point is already less than half, and it only moves down from there.

Assets

What he built gets priced, split, and reassigned by people who never earned it — legal fees included, and those are billed to him too, for the privilege of losing.

Who this is for

This site isn't for everyone. It's for men — the ones going through it right now, the ones who already went through it, and the ones who don't yet know it's coming.

Naming names

This doctrine is an argument about the system, not a finding about any individual. The Divorcerapist is where the public names specific people they believe acted this way in their own case — but a named entry is one person's account, not proof of the doctrine, and the doctrine existing doesn't prove any one accusation. See how naming works.

This page is a first filing, not a final judgment. The rest of the case is still being built.

Status: Open